Lose Weight Seattle
Emotional Roadblock 1: Perfectionism
You're doing the diet thing well. You've sticking to the
plan exactly as prescribed. You're drinking your eight glasses
of water a day, getting in some moderate exercise and seeing
the first signs of how you really can lose weight. Maybe this
is it! Maybe you've found the magic bullett, finally after all
these years. Hallelujah.
You go a couple weeks just the way you were taught and you
lose a few pounds. Then, there's that dinner party...
You resist 3 attempts by well-meaning diet sabotagers to
give you that lucious dessert until you finally cave in. And
cave in you do very well with a huge helping of that wonderful
cheesecake. You go to bed full of guilt tossing and turning on
your lack of willpower and standing up for yourself. You just
knew this couldnt' last and was too good to be true. The sense
of failure can be overwhelming.
The next morning comes and you wake up with that dreaded
feeling that you've failed and "What's the use, I will never be
successful with weight loss anyway."
You head for the pantry and find the cookies that you hid
just for the kids and you dig in. The rest of the day finds you
stuffing down the emotions...
Perfectionism can be a useful trait at times, but not in
making lifelong changes to lose weight over the long haul.
Listen, it's likely that you are going to slip up, backslide,
or otherwise do something you wished you hadn't. Be kind
to yourself and give yourself a break. Start out by forgiving
yourself for everything that's ever happened in the past.
In my office, we do this in hypnosis so that it gets to your
inner mind.
The ultimate result of perfectionism is failure. There is no
way of dieting or following any eating strategy perfectly.
Perfection doesn't even exist...anywhere! Give it up, it can't
be done. The process has MUCH FLEXIBILITY.
Even when you try to make healthy choices, you can't count
on what is being served...especially when travelling, at
friend's houses and at the restaurant.
Where does this perfectionism have it's roots? Somewhere in
your past and it's likely from childhood. Were you told that
you need to get all A's or A's and B's? That you have to do
that chore just so or you wouldn't get your allowance?
How do we undo that which is so deeply ingrained in our
entire being?
Hypnosis and other unconscious communication techniques make
that happen so that you can lose weight and become Slender
For Life.
Call for a no-charge consultation 425-457-7777 or email for
further info at:
Craig Sigl Seattle, Wa
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